Do you have a family member in Scientology? If so, here's a quick list of things to do, and things to avoid.
- To Do
- Learn everything you can about Scientology
- Write cards or short letters very frequently
- Send reminders of home and family, such as pictures or tapes
- Keep copies of all correspondence, make notes on phone calls and meetings
- Keep track of his or her movements, spouse and children
- Talk to former members of Scientology
- Network with other families of Scientologists
- Get your entire family involved, making special efforts to include all brothers and sisters
- Consider contacting an exit counselor
- Don't Do
- Send money
- Keep Scientology a family secret
- Send long, argumentative letters
- Send negative newspaper articles about Scientology
- Blame, threaten or disown your family member in Scientology
- Meet with Scientology leaders or talk with other members, meet one-on-one with the family member instead
- Neglect other parts of your life or family
- Tell your family member in Scientology about your networking
List is based on Combatting Cult Mind Control, by Steven Hassan, compiled and adapted for Scientology by Wendy.